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So, news has come in confirming that the IRS is going to offer a tax rebate on new cars purchased between now and January 1, 2010. Here are the details:

  • You can deduct state and local sales and excise taxes on the purchase of a new car;
  • Limited to $49,500 of the purchase price for a new car, “light truck,” or motor home or motorcycle;
  • Your modified adjusted gross income must be below $125,000 for individual filers and $250,000 for joint filers; and
  • Deductions must be taken on 2009 return.

Via IRS

I haven’t really been on my personal financial game of late. Oh sure, we’re still using our household budget, and I’ve even been cooking dinner with my new menu plan that I totally ripped off from Simple Mom (nope, not ready to link her yet, still in denial). But there’s a little leeway in our budget at present, in the form of my monthly “pocket money,” and I’ve been finding that I get lazy about using this money. The amount I get from month to month stays the same unless we have a really bad month, so I’m not increasing the overall expenditures by using this pocket money in full. But if I cut back on the smaller, “incidental” purchases that I make with this pocket money, I could bank it and either 1) leave a little more room for snowflaking in the next month; or 2) bank it and save up for something I really want for the house (like a new armchair for our bedroom).

So why do I keep failing at this? I don’t know. I guess it’s mostly laziness, or the feeling of getting a treat now and then. I’ve decided to list the things that I squander this money on–kind of an after-the-fact financial forensics lab. Maybe if I pinpoint exactly where and when this money is flying out of my pocket, I can put a stop to it.

  1. Gum, candy, etc. at the gas station. Do I really need this? I certainly don’t need the calories.
  2. Diet coke at Target. Why not just wait until I get home? Or, better yet, grab a can out of the eighty five million 12-packs I just bought? Dunno.
  3. Videos for Mini. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with getting videos for Mini on occasion, but I tend to buy him so many when I could use our Roku thingy more often if I would just think of it.
  4. Other crap and toys for Mini. Basically, I’m always buying this kid stuff. New clothes, shoes, the odd toy here or there. It always seems like a better deal to buy him stuff, since he can get a cool shirt for so much less than I can.
  5. Water and sports drinks at the gym. This is just awful. I forget a bottle of water when I leave the house, and I end up paying $3 or $4 for it at the gym–highway robbery. I need to buy a case of water and put it in my car to avoid this.
  6. Bean burritos at Taco Bell. I’ve been going through a phase where I eat a Taco Bell burrito and a diet coke for lunch. I could just go home and make a bean burrito with the tortillas, beans, and cheese we have at home. Oh, and pop a diet coke. But for some reason, I get in my car to go to Taco Bell.
  7. Gas to get to Taco Bell to get a burrito. Please see above.
  8. Starbucks, Starbucks, Starbucks.

What do you spend money on that you wish you didn’t?

The time period spanning from early 1998 through late 1999 was easily the worst just-over-a-year of my life for a variety of reasons, not all of them financial. I was working as a teacher for a small private school in San Diego, and was grossly underpaid for what was easily the most difficult job I have ever tried: “teaching” 6th graders. I use scare quotes because, in my experience, teaching comprises an extremely small portion of what you do whilst dealing with 6th graders: mostly, it is wrangling, breaking-up-of-fights, consoling, hand-wringing, hair-pulling-out, why-me-God asking. But that is a story for another day.

In exchange for performing this horrific job, I was paid just a little over a thousand dollars a month, which is a small salary anywhere, I believe, even in 1998-1999, even for a teacher, but especially in California. I was paying an insane portion of my “salary” in rent (somewhere near 50%), and had a part time job to make up the difference, more or less, in my expenditures. This was long before I started using a zero-based budget or had heard of Dave Ramsey. The only saving grace for the situation was that my credit limit was very low: I had only one card, and it had a $500 limit on it, so even if it was maxed out (as it usually was), I could not get myself into much more hot water with debt.

Or could I?

That whole year, I would inevitably find myself with bills to pay a week before the next paycheck was coming. I had no emergency fund, I had no plan whatsoever to deal with any aspect of my life (more on that some other time), but I have never been a late bill-payer (something about always needing to please, I think). Luckily (?) for me, Wells Fargo had just introduced its cash advance program for its customers who used direct deposit. Using this program, I could use $500 of my soon-to-be paycheck ahead of time for a small fee. Awesome! All I had to do was agree to paying $20 for every $100 I advanced, which seemed like a lot even at the time, but hey–I wasn’t running up a balance, and everything would be paid off next week. It wasn’t like real debt, right? It wouldn’t follow me around for years to come.

So I used the cash advance feature. A lot. Like, pretty much all the time. In effect, I borrowed money for what is equivalent to 240% APR for over a year, more or less every month, just so I could pay my stupid bills on time. Now, I could have taken a few extra hours and saved up a slush fund, or an emergency fund, to cover this overdraft issue. Or, I could have talked to my creditors and asked that the bill payments be due after my paycheck came in (yes, you can do that!), but instead, I did what many people do and borrowed money at usurous rates rather than looking at my finances head-on and looking for other alternatives.

Most people have a general idea that those check-cashing/cash advance places are a rip-off. And maybe this keeps some people from using them. But not everyone is as suspicious when the lending predator is somebody like Wells Fargo. So, I beg of you, don’t do this–don’t engage in behavior that will keep you poor even longer–never take a cash advance, and always be on the lookout for alternatives to debt, regardless of the form in which it presents itself.

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